| A Hard Topic, Without Apology |
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| by Tara Ross | Tue, Jul 17, 2007, 11:55 AM |
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“I am going to talk of controversial things. I make no apology for this.” With these words, Ronald Reagan sometimes began speeches that he gave in support of Barry Goldwater in 1964. Today, I hope to follow in the steps of a great American President. In this column, I am going to talk of controversial things. I make no apology for this. Sometimes, hard things must be said. More than 150 years ago, Thomas Hart Benton addressed the question of slavery in a Senate speech: “We read in Holy Writ, that a certain people were cursed by the plague of frogs, and that the plague was everywhere! You could not look upon the table but there were frogs, you could not sit down at the banquet but there were frogs, you could not go to the bridal couch and lift the sheets but there were frogs!” In short, he concluded, “We can see nothing, touch nothing, have no measures proposed, without having this pestilence thrust before us. Here it is, this black question, forever on the table, on the nuptial couch, everywhere!” If only the similarities between the abortion and slavery debates ended there. But they do not. Indeed, these issues may justly be called the two great moral crises in American history. Consider the shocking list of parallels: Pro-slavery advocates sought to keep slavery legal by classifying an entire group of human beings as “not persons.” So do pro-abortionists. Pro-slavery advocates argued that they would be subject to domination without the institution of slavery. The South claimed it would economically be subject to Northern industrial interests. Today, pro-abortion advocates argue that women will be subject to domination without the abortion industry. Women will be subject to the Patriarchy. Pro-slavery advocates used the Supreme Court to have its will imposed on the rest of the country when legislative processes were not working. Dred Scott v. Sandford was the result of judicial activism by slavery advocates. Today, pro-abortionists do the same. Roe v. Wade was the result. Pro-slavery advocates acted as they did for essentially selfish reasons. Southerners wanted economic gain. Pro-abortionists are similarly selfish. They want to have sex when they want, how they want, without apology or ramification. Pro-slavery advocates strove to make their views more acceptable by wrapping them up in the prettier language of choice. In the 1800s, southerners spoke of “states rights” and “property rights,” allowing them to make morally reprehensible decisions without interference. Today, pro-abortionists also spin their position as one of “choice.” Women speak of “my body, my choice,” allowing themselves to make morally reprehensible decisions without interference. The shocking immorality of abortion has been driven home with particular force, for this author at least, in recent months. On a personal note, my husband and I are expecting our first baby in a week or two. Throughout the process, we’ve been overwhelmed with how real our daughter is. Mere weeks after we discovered we were pregnant, we could see her heartbeat on a sonogram. A few weeks later, we were able to see her, again. We were overwhelmed with her humanness. Her little fingers and toes clenched and unclenched as the doctor counted them to be sure she had 10 of each. She yawned. She pulled away from the doctor when he poked at her. A later 4D sonogram was even more overpowering. She appears to have my nose, and she apparently has her parents’ quite stubborn temperament. That little girl was not at all pleased about being woken up! She grimaced and looked upset when the technician tried to get her to turn around. She yawned again. Her eyes opened, briefly, but she was determined to stay asleep (like I said, stubborn). But we don’t know our baby only through sonograms. Little baby hiccups have been a pretty constant phenomenon, at least for our daughter. She’s been getting them half a dozen times a day for months now. She has a particular favorite corner of my uterus, apparently, up in the right hand side, uncomfortably close to my ribs. Her little baby butt pokes up at me every once in a while, and I can tell that she has retreated to her favorite spot. Throughout most of these experiences, remember, it would have been perfectly legal for me to obtain an abortion. Some will be shocked, for which I am glad. Unfortunately, too many Americans are willing to write off my “right” to kill my daughter as my “choice.” Americans pulled through the moral crisis of the 1800s, correctly deciding to recognize all American men and women as human beings, fully protected by the Constitution, regardless of their race. Indeed, today, we are rightfully shocked that anyone could ever have viewed slavery as defensible. Here’s hoping that a day will soon come when all Americans recognize the indefensibility of labeling one group of individuals as “not persons,” allowing them to be killed, simply because they are younger and more vulnerable than the rest of us. Tara Ross will be taking a brief break from her column, as she and her husband Adam celebrate the birth of their daughter, Emma. Look for her columns again in the fall.
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written by Byron George , July 17, 2007 Tara, Well said! May God Bless you and your husband as you celebrate the birth of your daughter.
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written by Farinata X , July 18, 2007 OK, so if abortion is murder, as you say, then why don't we lock up women who get abortions and the doctors who perform them on murder charges? After all, if abortion is murder, then what's the difference between a woman who hires a hit man to kill her husband and a woman who hires a doctor to kill her baby? Do advocate that course of action. Fine. Say so.
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written by David A Hill , July 18, 2007 I agree with your article and I appreciate the comparison, it shines a light from a different direction that I hope more people will see. Best wishes with the new child and God Bless.
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written by HSH , July 18, 2007 Tara, I disagree with your analogy and your position but wish you and your husband all the best with the new addition -- clearly a choice that was right for you.
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written by Farinata X , July 18, 2007 HSH says, "clearly a choice that was right for you." That's what Ross would deny other women: the same choice she herself exercises.
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written by Paul Barnes , July 18, 2007 Tara, Congratulations on the birth of your child and all the best to your family. I, like HSH, am puzzled by your comparing abortion politics to the black experience in America. Have you discussed this idea with any of your black friends?
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written by Byron George , July 18, 2007 Ok for a woman to terminate a pregnancy, but we have several local women in jail for killing their infant children. Kill it before it is born is ok. Woman's choice. Woman choses to kill the baby immediately after birth and goes to jail. In both instances, a baby was killed. Go figure.
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written by Sam Merten , July 18, 2007 I have no problem with the slavery analogy. However, I think while there are striking similarities, there is one key difference: killing vs. enslaving. I am no advocate of slavery, but I judge those who kill harsher than those who hold slaves. This was a tough issue, Tara, and good for you for tackling it. However, this illustrates the fundamental difference between people who treat abortion as murder and those who don’t. To those who don’t, I say if you don’t want to be responsible enough to protect yourself against pregnancy, then get a hysterectomy. Enjoy the birth of your baby girl, Tara. Something tells me the name Hillary has been ruled out. On a side note, you can’t go wrong starting with a quote from the late, great Ronald Reagan.
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written by Ian Perry , July 19, 2007 "what's the difference between a woman who hires a hit man to kill her husband and a woman who hires a doctor to kill her baby?" None. And both likely have a similar feeling of justification.
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written by HSH , July 19, 2007 Sam -- notable is your omission of a man's responsibility in "protecting yourself against pregnancy." I suppose you don't feel you have one.
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written by Jim B , July 19, 2007 The attitude of Constitution towards slavery is ambiguous tactfully avoiding the question of morality. Indentured servitude is also mentioned. The Constitution seems to be more concerned with freedom and the representation of slaves in government. It rightfully asserts that slaves were probably not fully represented by those in Congress. Less was said about the women of that time but then women did not serve in the military either. We face a similar situation today with the rights of the unborn. Congress chooses not to grant them full rights as citizens and full protection of the law. After all, Congress decides questions of citizenship and seems reluctant to grant it to fetuses which have not yet been born in America. Even after they are born children are considered dependents and do not gain full equality until they become adults. The hard questions should not be ignored.
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written by Sam Merten , July 20, 2007 HSH: I don’t ignore the man’s responsibility when it comes to protecting against pregnancy. However, abortion is sold as the “right of a woman.” My statement was to say that for those women who act irresponsible and then kill their baby, they should get hysterectomies instead.
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written by Paul D. Perry , July 21, 2007 I don't think this is an accurate comparison, however well intentioned. Slavery in the U.S. was a national problem and evil both in the North and South. Northern financiers and shipping families profited from what was originally a national demand for slave labor. Southern planters used the greatest numbers of African slaves. None of these groups engaged in coordinated mass murder. They engaged in kidnaping, assault and even criminal manslaughter in some cases, especially those involved in shipping. Even the gross evil misuse of human beings that resulted in many casualties during the shipping of slaves was not designed with the purpose of murder in mind. If the slave made it through the process they did have some legal protection, in the South anyway. Slavery itself was an abuse, however in most states the murder of a slave was a crime. Abortion of a human, certainly after the first few weeks, is the government sanctioned premeditated taking of innocent life. Abortion is now sanctioned on a huge scale and even subsidized in some circumstances. Systematically it is more akin to but now dwarfs in numbers the mass murders of the Nazis and Pol Pot’s minions. Globally, abortion may account for more loss of life than Stalin's and Mao’s Communists. Many slaves had decedents at least; aborted human beings never have that chance.
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written by HSH , July 23, 2007 Sam -- You just don't get it. You are still placing all the responsibility on the woman. If a man feels that abortion is murder, then he should reframe from having sex with any woman who he suspects is not using contraception. Better yet, he should never have sex without a condom. If you were to interview any clinic that provides abortion services, you would learn that the great majority of women using their services are accompanied by a boyfriend or husband. Write comment
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